Does He Want Sex or Something More?

It's sometimes hard to figure out if he's hanging around for booty or if it's because he's really into you. Apparently flowers, chocolates and meeting your parents aren't enough proof that it's indeed LOVE!

So, assuming all your mental faculties are still working, please do go through the following and try to make some sense with them!

It's just sex if...
...all his charm is used up getting you into bed and afterwards, he can't seem to meet your eyes and barely mumbles a goodbye before bolting.

But it's something more...
...if he's just as comfortable and warm for the post-game show as he is in the pre-game. Extra points if he's interested in making plans right away to do something (that doesn't involve round two).

It's just sex if...
... he doesn't make firm plans in advance to see you. Those 2 a.m. text messages he sends after his Friday night are neither "firm" nor "in advance."

But it's something more...
...if you're going on real, during-daylight-hours dates, planned for ahead of time, while sober.

It's just sex if...
...you've heard mention of various friends and family members, but he's fuzzy on certain details. Like their names.

But it's something more...
...when you've met at least some friends and family members. Once his buds have bonded with you, there's no easy way to untangle himself from your union.

It's just sex if...
...most of your "talking" is limited to the dirty variety. And the clean stuff is usually about superficial stuff like movies, music and how wasted you got last weekend.

But it's something more...
...if he asks you bond-building questions about your life, work, family, and goals. Being able to - and interested in - talking about the Big Issues means he's in it for the long haul.

But women should never be underestimated! We always know when it's just for body heat or for real, who are they fooling? Love or lust, as long as it's an affair worth to remember, then it's probably worth it that moment. Besides, it's the men in our lives that count, it's the life in our men....